Wednesday, January 26, 2011

No One Is To Be Blame

***Copy & Paste email***

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.



1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

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The husband just said, "I am with you, Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior.
The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.
Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

This story is really worth reading...
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out something.

P/S : Still at the office, listening to "Cannon Pachebel" :)

With Love,


NAJ HEBAT said...


nak ber-touching2. Lalala

♥ Juliana Violet ♥ said...

♥ Hee hee. Touching tak? Touching tak?

Anonymous said...

very enlightening :)

zmah said...

Cute gambar...girl

♥ Juliana Violet ♥ said...

♥ Right? :)

♥ Hee hee, yeah... she's cute. :)

EmanCloud said...

eman x tau ape nak cakap. kire suami die leh terime kenyataan bende dah jadi nak marah2 wat pe kan? bagus. cite yg bile bace. "ahhhhh" soft je rase huhu

✿ y.a.n.i.e budak G.E.B.U ✿ said...


lama gak tak komen kat sini


izzad b* said...

nice, really nice!

Asrul "iLham" Sany said...

where there;s no one to blame, it sucks sometime. hahaha

♥ Juliana Violet ♥ said...

♥ Vee suka baca email2 macam nie. :)

♥ Itulah dear. Takpe, masing2 busy kan... :)

izzad b*,
♥ Sharing is sweet kan? :)

Asrul "iLham" Sany,
♥ Ahahaha... betul jugak tue. ;)

Imran nyambek said...

sob sob

♥ Juliana Violet ♥ said...

Imran nyambek,
♥ Alololoooo... takmo nangis2 ye...